Oklahoma Tornadoes, victims, survivors; we are thinking about you

Oklahoma Tornadoes have devastated, destroyed and claimed lives… and they need us to send all the loving thoughts, prayers, energy and hope that we can find to them.  I cannot imagine the losses being experienced there, the brains, hearts, souls that are finding the strength to stand in the ruin as the search continues, the quiet and darkness shows up in the blink of an eye and the threat of more appears in other towns and cities across the state even now. PRAYING FOR OKLAHOMA and her people.  
Our warrior Osh has let me know that she opened her “Cellars” on her property to neighbors both known and unknown yesterday and today and they were filled as the warning was sounded to get to safety there where she lives… The cellars were filled with people underground as they took her up on the offer and came; they opened the door and took the steps underground then the lid was closed. there they waited until it was safe to emerge into the fresh air, and today they are safe, they are working yet watching the skies and the threat there is real, it continues and it is not looking real good for yet another day in Oklahoma where they may again have to retreat underground.  I was so worried as I finally heard from Osh today, as I heard her tell me that the cellar was filled and imagined so many standing shoulder to shoulder in that cellar I had seen for the first time when I was in Choctaw Nation… I had to ask. Was it dark, was it dark?
Finally she let me know that they had a lantern to see by, and it was not what one would call a pleasant experience but more a “pain in the ass.”  With that we laughed. Even in times of great devastation and horror there are times that humor and laughter are found.  That was one of those times, the sound of laughter in the face of such fright, pain, losses and impending danger.
 

I just cannot imagine looking out my window and from a blue sky seeing the this; now hearing that the quiet is the first key to what is to come, winds of more than 200+ miles and the warnings that let you know to seek shelter immediately.  I was not surprised to hear that our warrior here known as Osh, would go from neighbor to neighbor, those known and those she does not know and let them know before the threat of such things that she has two cellars and they were all welcome to come if needed for refuge and for safety. She is just that good, that compassionate, that caring … and for the first time, come they did and the doors of both were open to them.  
Meanwhile in OKC, devastation had already hit; horror witnessed and being viewed across the world and on the news.  Lives precious lives lost in rubble and the search still going on as we mourn with them. First responders responding and others arrving, the Guard being called out, people coming to aide and to be all that they can be… Reminding children and everyone, look not at the horror, but look for the helpers.

Many are seasoned helpers in times of tragedy, many more are taking their first time lending a hand, many more are standing where so many have stood in the face of horror now not able to do it like so many times before. Others are wondering why so many children were in a school, so many questions, so much heartache. We are watching Oklahoma show us strength and showing us faith, as rubble is all around some are finding the courage to string our Flag up and stand with grace under skies now again blue in Oklahoma City while places west of there are seeking shelters and cellars and forecasts of potential devastation rush through the air and the veins of people trying to catch their breath.

We are seeing those who respond looking weary, they are answering the call of their own, their friends, their communities, their beloved state … yet they stand, they crawl, they will not be beaten down by the likes of this.  Many organizations will join together, many will stand, kneel and will pray together. They will re-build together and show resiliency through shock, numbness, grief, trauma, and growth.
they will lean in and lean to for support.

So much sadness, so much to talk about… and in this photo we see an Elder who has probably forgotten more than most will ever know, yet he sits in a rocker that made it through devastation his life intact along with that rocker… they just don’t make em like that anymore many might conclude. As the Fire Department, the Police Department and so many respond, that Elder sits and takes it all in; probably in a rocker older than any of those responders, he sits and just looks like its another day in his beloved Oklahoma.

A state where just last week in Choctaw Nation the annual Trail of Tears walk was walked by hundreds as they remembered, a state where the Cherokee Nation remembers and has a similar walk; now in OKC and in Moore such devastation and a new trail of tears is being seen across the world and we watch. Warriors in action as they search for precious lives that may still be there under rubble, and we pray them alive, yet know they may have died; joining the count of more than 55 people lost as a result of massive tornadoes that rolled into beloved Oklahoma, also known as Indian Country… 
A place that I was so honored to speak at not so long ago, with a room filled with folks in law enforcement, in Indian Health from Choctaw Nation, from Children Services, From the University there, with Osh there who showed me that cellar(s) on her property and told me all about it.  A woman of great strength and courage, who let me know some of the history of her community and the surrounding area, and the people that I was so honored to meet, from teachers, to therapists, counselors, nurses, cops, United States Public Health Services, Educators … all with a story, all together for the betterment of communities some as far as Texas and OKC…

Oh yes, I feel connected as family to the Choctaw Nation, almost adopted by them now in a oneness and sacredness there, my heart weeps for Oklahoma in the devastation they are now facing. Yet I feel strongly they will show each other great strength through their faith, their inner strength, their mourning and growth along with the resiliency of the Ancestors as we watch them move through each hour, each day. They are in the presence of strong and powerful angels there, and will find the courage to heal after the storms… in time, in work, in amazing grace, one foot in front of the next, arm in arm.

Oklahoma, we are surrounding you with thoughts, prayers, and hope…

  

WAYS TO HELP:

• There are several ways to help, online or by phone. Sending a text to 90999 with the message REDCROSS will result in a $10 donation.
• The Red Cross also has a service that allows survivors to register themselves online and lets family members check on the status of loved ones.
• For victims of the storm, FEMA offers a guide to applying for federal help, as well as an online application for aid, at its website. For those who can’t reach a computer, there’s also a .
• In Oklahoma City, news services  have provided their own lists of local aid groups, to help residents coordinate relief and donation efforts.
• There are many news and updates that include places where families can reunite and where to find emergency housing.
• Social media is providing many updates on things from the status of the city’s water (it’s safe) to road closings. Many are checking on family members, status of local updates as well.
• If you’re in an area that could be hit by a tornado this year, FEMA has recommendations  for the powerful storms. The list of tips includes what to do before, during, and after a tornado.

We also have a reader here Sandy Strickler who we are sending a shout out to that is in OK, wishing you and yours continued safety and blessings…

For Crossroads Hospice we are sending you thoughts and prayers for staff and your patients there, wishing safety to those who are out on the roads, and providing such loving care during such difficult times, 

For Osh, who is at work today and trying to get home as the skies are getting dark, the stillness is giving everyone clues that the storms are coming we pray you safety and have our arms around you all in Choctaw Nation…

Oklahoma we are with you….

and for those who are there, may you find a safe place to place your heart and your heads we honor your pain.
thank you first reponders.

Walk in Beauty
DRSES

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Happy Monday oh my the sun is shining

blue skies, sun shining, gentle breeze, and Happy Monday to all as we get ready for the best of all things! Look UP, stand UP, get ready to defy gravity as you move into your day with an attitude of great gratitude that you ARE you.  No one will ever be you, and you will never be anyone else, so it is all the more reason to be the best you possible!

I sure hope you had the best of the weekend, heard the best of music, or made the best of what you found on your road, your path, your stops and goes…  it was grand from my view as I was most selective in what I listened to and who I surrounded myself with.  The energy was positive, the music was keen, and the rhythm of life most beautiful, even with the annual flip from the bow of the boat on Lake Tarpon after feeling the wind on my face and the comfort of great family of choice.  Seeing the majestic Eagles sitting a limb apart as if waiting for our arrival only then for one to take flight spreading those wings as in dance in concert to the bluest of skies and the music that played just for our eyes to witness at just that moment.

Life is better than good, when you surround yourself with goodness and allow the Universal Energy to flow through you and receive it from others.  Let that energy propel you today and as you place one foot in front of the other, taking in that goodness, breathing in the good, exhaling the angst, the fear, the anger or stress.

Take in that which is good for you… being mindful to surround yourself with all that feeds and nourishes your soul, your spirit, your brain and release those things that do not serve you well.

this is the message of this day.
Short and to the point:

Let’s go…

Walk in beauty,
DRSES



 

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Look up Look around, send good thoughts to all

 Blow your horn, let your voices be heard, it is Sunday and time to make some joyous noise!!!

 It’s a beautiful day… a day to remind you to never ever give up or give in.  Have a remarkably beautiful day!!!

The big old powerball of the lottery proved just that as ONE woman here in Florida has now won it all… can you even imagine, i sure hope that you can. In the imagining all things are possible!

So many stood in lines and had such fun last night with conversations of what in the world they would do with that 600 million should they be the one to claim the winning ticket. They had at least $2.00 worth of fun with the dream, the plan, the ideal of it all.  And one woman, who purchases a ticket in the same town that we see on bottled water is the winner … 
The old saying holds true; you have to play to win. And often you have to play to activate your imagine… ah I guess my island will wait til the next time and all those good deeds I had lined up in my mind to be doing will just have to hold a bit… Congratulations to the winner, who will have all sorts of “new best friends” lining up to find her.

A very happy Birthday today to our warrior EE, may she feel the love…

Prayers goin up for our Osh here today as she recovers from a nasty accident harming her shoulder and that injured her leg taking the skin right off her leg and looks ever so painful up there in OK, may she heal quickly.

A happy birthday to the little 5 year old Grandson of Laura Roorda, who is growing in leaps and bounds letting her know, “I am kinda big for my age grandma” as he ate waffles, eggs, hashbrowns, bacon and then needed some dessert”  HAPPY BIRTHDAY BEN!!
 What a great little guy…
And a “hands up bravo” for the son of Ali, our warrior here who managed the honor roll and so many great things this year in the 7th grade while doing good deeds in the community…
And a “oh my goodness fine job” to cuz Angie and the folks in Pulaski with their Relay for Life as they walked and walked last Friday Night… They were off the chain there as she led the charge in fund raising exceeding their goals for the relay at Pulaski Rehab selling bbq and hot dogs running and doing even enlisting Dot/Mom/Cob in delivering all over town to folks! Bravo!!!

Look for the good, the positives and those who are making contributions for the betterment of all…

Prayers going up for all today and our America, those of Rolling Thunder who are tuning up and getting ready to ride to D.C. for those who can’t as we remember and honor.

The prayer bowl is growing as we hold up so many in thought, in energy, in prayers that are offered; the fire is lit, the sage is in the air;

For The Korabek/Shram tribe, AnneMary, Shirley, Karen, Lori, Tanya,  Kendra, Kurt, Joan, Jack, Tom, Chris, Sabian, Rus, STan, Greg, Scott, Christian, Mike, Richy, Areila, Penny, Ford, Bob, Frank, Eric, Kurt, Bob, Chases Cows, George, Justan, Phillip, Deion, Hunter, Pop, Ledg,
Matthew, Stephen, Pat, Jennifer, ZERO, soar on dear one, we will miss you always yet know you are with us in all the familiar places …Prayers and strength for Alexis and her family in their time of grief and devastation; holding them in their sorrow with prayers going up;Chelsea, Baby Florenzo, and Sara may the Creator welcome you all home to the Ancestors…   Those in Christiansburg VA and surrounding communities for strength and healing, VAAP,
Stephen Deirslen and family we are holding you up with prayers and thoughts; Kurt, Ali, Jeremiah, Pop Spring, Joe, Rachel, Matthew, Nick, Leanne, Leslie, Stephen, Gayle, Karen, Janet, Perry, JT, Moses, Little Nicholas, Karen, Ericka, young Peyton, Bill, Shauna, Dixie, Kurt, J&L,
  

Choctaw Nation, SODA, Kari, Jamie, Tiffany, Bob, David, The Durant P.D., Windhorse, Hezra and Dan, Pat, Joan, Jane, Mickey, Cynthia, Rubuye, Patches, Charla, Kurt, Lyle, Bear, Sylvia, Heidi, Samatha, Marcus, Brenda McQuire, Jan, Joan,  Louise E. Duckwork and her family, friends, Brother Michael Belford, Rev Bev and family,

…

 

For Sandy Hook and those in Newtown CT., for all those who have been touched, shattered and devastated by violence we are with you here and pray for an end to such horrible things happening in our world. 

 

 To those who are fighting the fight,

 

we are fighting alongside you and thinking about you.

 

Rebecca, Hudson, Peyton, Dottie, Zero, George, Peyton, Billy Ray, Yvonne, Les, Lana, Lanita, Kelly, John, Bill,

~ `~

For:

Erin, Ellie, Andrei, WM, Yvonne Cassie, Mildred, Michele, Evelyn, Kelly, Betsy, The Faulkner Family, Stan, Dan, Christie, Ledge, Rick Paul, Colin G Brady, 

NYPD, Guardian Angel Hospice and those there, Lanita, Dana, Leslie, Dottie, Kelly, Molly, Evan, Jeff, Ruby, Kevin, Scott, Dakota, Ruby, Dottie, Todd, John, BK, Clare, Yvonne, Evelyn, Sonny, Trace, Lyle, Michael, Beverly, Shauna, Dixie,

Julia Skinner and her NRV ELITE in Christiansburg VA,thank you for a wonderful year.

Coach Carb and family, Cooper, Mark, Marvin, Zaden, Zamerion, Daniel, 

Carol, Sandy, Carrie and her family in Aurora,Ali,BK, Carolyn, Karen, Kelly and her family up North,

 

For those who have asked and we are standing with you in your time of sorrow, angst, difficulties.

  Jane, Walter, Jen, Heidi and family, Dianne, Ken,  Lori, Cynthia, Scott, Ali Legend, and children,  Heather Belle, Carolyn, Rog, Dusty, the 5,000 guardians now standing in the memory of Thomas O’Brien,

For:

KM, Osh Kosh, Harriet, Sherry Reed, Mary Grace, Shirley, BK, Stephanie, Lorrie, Pop and his family,

Sherry C.,  Katie and Bill Majestic, Marvin, Layne, Lori, Jim, D, Heidi, Julia, Rolling Thunder, The Patriot Guard, Carol,The Schram/Korabek family, Kyle, Mark, Todd, Yvonne, Harry, Kevin, Jen, Charles,  Glenn, “the littleOne”, Anne Klein, Monica Graff, Penny, Chris, Joy, Anne, Sara, Jenn, Shirley, AnneMary, Michael, Jeannie,Patti Labelle and family, The Wounded Warrior Brigades,   Warren Buffet, Best of health be restored to you sir, Kyle Jones in TN; a magic maker, a musician and a good man, M Dave Glenn Alley a talented musician who is extending himself in service to others, blessings to you friend,BK, Kevin, Dash, Graham, Suzannah,

Seth Greenberg and family, Eileen D. and family, Steve and family, Anne, A, Sandy, “EI”, Kev, Chris,

Lyle Emerson and his family in Buffalo and little Kendra 3 years old who is fighting Lymphoblastic Leukemia,

Bernice Etsitty and the life of her son, gone too soon Garrett Joe,Joey, Sam, Tyler, Robbie, Elizabeth, Tommy,

Duke Limongello gone too soon,

and all the children of all colors, all ages, and causes

gone to soon.

Sandy Hook Elementary School

in memory and prayers:

  Charlotte Bacon, 2/22/06, female
- Daniel Barden, 9/25/05, male
- Rachel Davino, 7/17/83, female.
- Olivia Engel, 7/18/06, female
- Josephine Gay, 12/11/05, female
- Ana M. Marquez-Greene, 04/04/06, female
- Dylan Hockley, 3/8/06, male
- Dawn Hochsprung, 06/28/65, female
- Madeleine F. Hsu, 7/10/06, female
- Catherine V. Hubbard, 6/08/06, female
- Chase Kowalski, 10/31/05, male
- Jesse Lewis, 6/30/06, male
- James Mattioli , 3/22/06, male
- Grace McDonnell, 12/04/05, female
- Anne Marie Murphy, 07/25/60, female
- Emilie Parker, 5/12/06, female
- Jack Pinto, 5/06/06, male
- Noah Pozner, 11/20/06, male
- Caroline Previdi, 9/07/06, female
- Jessica Rekos, 5/10/06, female
- Avielle Richman, 10/17/06, female
- Lauren Rousseau, 6/1982, female (full date of birth not specified)
- Mary Sherlach, 2/11/56, female
- Victoria Soto, 11/04/85, female
- Benjamin Wheeler, 9/12/06, male
- Allison N. Wyatt, 7/03/06, female

   

and for

OUR President and his family

of our United States of America,

those who are serving our Nation and their service animals

 

and all who have served

and their families,those who have fallen and are still missing we honor and thank you,

May the Creator bless you for holding us in your arms to protect our freedoms.

We  remember.

For,

 

 

 DLB, Dot/COB/Mom, Angela, Kamryn Elijah, D’Vante, Linda McDonald,Joan & Olivia,

danLrene, CJ, Florence, Jenn, Bill, Denise, Ashe, Stuart Jr,  Barry Gibb, his family, Whitney, the Houston family, the family of our disco queen Donna Summer ,

 

Andre, Bill, Taft Abras, Mary Labyaks’ family , Andrea, Patti, Jamie, Sasha, Kerri, Josh, Kar, Cash, Neil, Lori, Cindi, Tom, Shasta, Bill Simpson and Family, Jenn, Steph, Dana, Kari, Sandy, Marty, Marsha, Wanda, Ellen, Cindee, Peggy, Joyce Cruz, a CANCER survivor working at Southwest Airlines *it was an honor to meet you dear one*, Ike Davis, in New Mexico, an artisan who plays in the mud and creates beautiful tings out there, *http://www.negroartist.com/* what a joy you are to so many of SOUTHWEST, thank you for visiting with me, prayers of continued success and tobacco to your Pueblo uncle! and for Christos Fandaros, Thomas Galvin, John Knudson, Curtis, Susie Langham, Stasia and Billy Hall, Christina Chavez and Rick and Ryan, Pam Meyer, Whitney, Diane Bystista, Susan, Leann Vincent, Roxanne Duran, Carole Poppendeck, Mary Jo H-shortes, Bridget, Robert Tanner Mara Tanner, Yolanda L Acosta, Antonio F. Balderrama, Denise Flowers, Lisa Balance, Sherry Stedman, Rose, Marquette, Acosta, Ortega, The Pueblo Peoples,

 

All those I was honored to spend time with in

 

” Choctaw Nation, IN, VA, DC, MD, FL, CT, PA, Ohio, Michigan, South Dakotas, Geisinger Medical Center, Michigan, Oklahoma, Ohio, Solaris Hospice, Evercare, Hospice of the Western Reserve, Gesinger, Guardian Angel Hospice,  Crossroads Hospice, New Hope Hospice, Comfort Keepers KS, El Paso, Santa Fe, Albuquerque”

 

Jeremy, Florence, Cal, Sarch, our friends of Portugal, Mike, AnnMary,Stephanie, Jimmy, Keli, Kasi, Katherine, Julie, Allan, Lynda,LeeAnn, KS Comfort Keepers, Stephen Bright, Linda and staff Melody,Brenda A and children Sarah, David Rachel; Gloria, Pete, Fred, Max, JJ, Barb and Leo Henning, Rick Fechner, Ryan Baurain, Melissa Reid, “Probation Professional pals”, Jim Vander May (*who has been working in the Professional field for 45 years in Michigan*, Dale, Herschel, Bonnie, Louise, Holly, Jerry, Faith, Yvette, Happy, Audrey, and Rod Markowski and family, Lynn, Ryan, Jordon, Darryl Markowski, I thank you for your service) Brian Markowski, Shannon Becker, Nick, Reagan, Dr Iris Taylor of Detroit Medical Center,, please take best care of you) Sandy R. Carol, Stephanie, Geri, Chris, Matt, those in Oklahoma City, in Tulsa, In Ft Worth, Dallas, Ike, Isabel, Teresa, Janelle, Patricia, Susan, Karen, Laura in Yuba City CA, The Walter Reed Warrior Transition Brigade, Hope Hospice, Crossroads Hospice and those who care out there working and walking the walk, Perry, Clayton, George, Janet, and all in green! Rick, Calley, Ron, Rebekeh, Brenda, Becca, Audrey, Gabe, Dena, Beth, Lill, Jay Hanson, Jennifer, Beth Jett, Huntsville AL, Sheri, Wendy Reese and family, Sandy, Toby, Edith Vaughn and family,Susan, Greg and Kyle Korabek (Landon Korabek on the other side now), Stephen Bright and family, Walter Littlemoon, Jane, Laura, Mitch, Jenn, Chris, Mary, Taft, Martha Deaver, Morris, Dahlee, Rose Brick, The Baitinger Family, The Yaslowitz Family, The St Petersbug PD, Congresswoman Gabbie and her family, Dahlee in NJ, Judy Kelley, beloved husband and family, Jennifer, (now being watched over by her beloved husband and child), Norma, EE, Little Cub to CJ and Angel eyes Jack, Daniel, Dave, Cindy and Steve, Marty, Sweet Pea and Pie Face, Florence, Jeremy, Dennis, Darrel, Greg, Leroy, Rebekka, Carly, John, Diana, Crystal, Karen, Janet, Callie, Lorie, Laura, Larry, Clive,

2 Wolves and Jinx in SD, (http://www.2wolvescreations.com/)

Kelly and family,Judy W and her 4 sons up there in New England, Cherokee Wick, Benni, Gayle, Jonathan, Great Aunt Effie’s family, Marilyn Warren, Ilene, Tweak and Chris, Jen and Brian, Ericka, Shannon, Hannah Sherabow, Pam C. and family, Susan S., Angela A., Nancy W, Sue G, Kelly and family, Susan Brouse, Cindy and Stevie, Kim, Olatz, EVB, Guin, Yiva, Mary, Sandra and family, Christina Helen, Dotti B., Susan and Greg, Amy, Becky and Barry Long, Christina, Matt and children, Aaron, Lisa and family, Freda, Linda Katie, Pat D, Tink and Mitch, LITTLE Ben, Jerry, Trish, Barb, Anastasia, Mary, Rylee, Lindsay, Ann, Sarah, Ruth, Johnny, Bobby and the Tucker Family, The Spraker Family,Kenny H, Michelle, Sandy, Addie and family in Canada, Sandy, BraveHeart, Rowena, Chris, Robyn Elizabeth, Jean, Duke,Rowena, Chris, Baby Robyn Elizabeth, Diane Smallze and family, Patti and family, The Korabek Family and friends, The Gasse Family and Friends,

Officer Crawford of St Petersburg, The Kocab Family, baby Lilly Nicole Kocab, The Curtis Family, Tarpon PD, those serving here and there in Uniform… Those now walking The Thin Blue Line, (far to many joining that line recently across our Nation),

 

Mylee, Mikey and family in DC, Jack M & Janis in OC, Stephen, Stuart Wittel  of the US MARINES and his parents Sandy and Stuart, Lavie Coltrane and family, Andrea Gasse and family here and in New England, Ali and family, Randy and Winnie in New Mexico, Jill Wheaton L, Dr Peter in NY, Dr Rev Bev, Irene M, Bernice, Eileen and family, Vicki, Matthew and family, Chris, Lovie, Nancy, Pedro and Our adopted family in BRAZIL, Our North American Black American Bears, The Windcross Convservacy and those beautiful Spanish Mustangs known as “pocket ponies”… the dolphins , always our most remarkable dolphins!!!

AND for:

Anne, Jim, JADE, Cynthia, Joseph, Cathy Madden, Nathan, and her family., Cindy in NC, Liz, Lee, Molly, Joanie, Jude, COFA, Judi, Ken, Matthew, Nick, Matt, Mark’s family and many friends , Pat, Irene, Kevin, Dr D, Deb, Randy, Dr B, Isabelle, Kelsey, Sabrina , Charlie and family, Jean, Julie, Rhonda, Victoria, Mildred, Andi and family, Faith, Denise, Jim, Tom, Joey, Shelby friends and family, Judi, Phylis, Joyce, Gina, Tonya, Beverly and Family, Janeth, Melissa,Virginia, Stacey, Elizabeth, Nita, Gary Siegal, Adrienna, Brian Mawbey, the Boyan Family, Jean R and friend Christy Rider, Victoria and hubbie, Stephen, Gayle, Steph, Chris, Erica, Eileen, John, Mindy, Jack, Susan Werth Becken, her brother Mike and family, Craig James Lightfoot and his family, Kenny, Audrey, Ed Saner, Patty Crowley, Bennie, Gail, Jonathan, Moe, Beverly, Dennis, Peter, Trish, Cynthia, Heidi and her family, Kathy Knights family, Edith Vaughn, Candy, Cynthia, Jenn, Eve, Edith, Jason, Karen, Linda, Joyce, Belinda, Jeanette, Jennifer, Patti, Sandy S, and . .. 

(Feel free to let me know if you would like to add your/or a friends name to our prayer bowl. 

 

Walk in Beauty

 

DRSES

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Good things happen to, bad things happen to…People

An oldie but a goodie… When bad things happen to good people. I heard this said just yesterday, with it beginning with the word “why does Bad things happen to good people”.
As I read it, I thought of this old standard, and my mind reeled off the many times I had heard this question and the many times I had thought had appropriate we could ask the question in these times and days. I immediately thought of the many needless deaths we have heard of, have witnessed on media, the many diseases and diagnosis that millions are suffering with, the children of abuse and of Sandy Hook, their families, the Boston Bombings, the men and women that fight for our very freedoms and the list goes on. I thought of the many families that lay awake at night worried about family members who seem to not care that the worry is happening, and the many good people who are involved in things that seem to happen randomly entrenched in the lives of others they love so desperately now in harms way. what a question one that involves such great thought.
I thought of so many in the prayer bowl, so many who struggle daily and who fight with all their might just to get through each day yet manage to keep an attitude of gratitude.
Yes bad things happen to really good people it seems; always has and probably always will, while others who we shake our head about seem to go about their lives without a care in the world or regard for anything or anyone and are of good health and little regard of anyone or anything if measured against compassion, kindness and goodwill to others.  Some out there get bumb raps, and a hard deck of cards handed to them. It’s not the hand dealt so much as it is the way the hand is played that makes the person. Some will be self-absorbed, tunnel visioned or “wannabes” in order to fit in or to milk things for all they are worth, while others will forge ahead and find their way to greatness, living their dream and swimming against the current in order to do so. Yes, there are times that bad things may happen, but it is how we approach the good the bad and the ugly that make the person and those around them, it is about loving and looking for the rainbow after the storm and learning along the way looking that moment dead on with reality. It is also the reality that sometimes really good people can make really bad choices. Perhaps the first time they make a mistake in life… but after the first time they make a choice. Whether by association or by those they choose to be with, hang with, or even the choice to not do anything differently that too is a choice. It is in our choices that sometimes bad things, really bad things result; and ultimately they can be cumulative and like trying to stack cards, all of a sudden they begin to tumble down, and it can be quick or slow, but ultimately they all come down. It can be devastating, it can be life changing for the good, or for the bad. It can leaving one shaking their head or their whole body trembling and saying, “what in the world has happened and why is everyone against me”.
Again a choice is faced; one to accept responsiblity or two; to enter denial and say it is not my fault or my choices I am being framed or judged harshly. Either way, it becomes a time of reckoning and usually integrity is on the line, Karma along with reputation and character is left questioned. A good person with a bad choice is left standing at the steps of pain, loss and heartache, often self inflicted secondary to getting caught up in moments of associations and the moments.   

Life is complicated that way… It doesn’t mean everyone is bad, it means they are humans who often have fallen into bad associations or bad judgments or not the best of friends.  It happens, and we are seeing it more and more with friends and those wanting to be something that they were not raised to be. No one grows up with aspirations and hopes to be less than a good person, or at least not most people. They just get caught up in their youth, their immaturity, their quest to fit in, and before you know it they may end up in the wrong places at all the wrong times.  With a blink of the eye, something goes terribly wrong and there is hell to pay, many lives get changed and life as we knew it is never the same. There are those times that trust is violated or there is a suspicion of lies through a history of untruths that leaves one to doubt and hurts are had and those are hard to recover from.  Once trust is lost, it takes years to repair, yet at times you have to wonder if it can ever be like it was (unless you are delusional) and would rather ignore reality.
Some can convince themselves of those things, yet it is not healthy.  Then there are times when news and people hit us so hard we are taken to our knees; but we fail to remember that while there we are once again on solid ground. We can while there be still and give thanks that we are… we are capable of standing again, stronger than before, wiser than before, more compassionate than ever before.  We can learn from things we witness, from bad choices that not only we make but those bad choices we see and hear of others making. We can learn to set tighter boundaries for our own balance, and to restore the balance we have with others while teaching and commanding respect in our own honest right way relations. We can honor all living beings and living things by saying, “I love you but I do not like what you are doing nor the path you are on.”
We can help others by suggesting that if they want change, that change begins within.

 

we can honor our path, our pain, the pain and loss of others, while recognizing that each path is different, and yes there will be times when bad things happen to good people and at times bad people seem to walk free. There are also times that bad people have Karma, some have swift justice served while for others justice seems to take a very long time and we often doubt if it ever rolls around.  Each person will view right from wrong depending on their relationship with the person involved, each will have a definition of good vs. bad and what makes a person tick on the inside and the out.  We will look at another and we will wonder why and what they think given how they act and the persona that they present to the outside world and that world of family that supports and loves them… how they or we treat those closest to us and those that we support.  We will laugh and remember old sayings of “you can tell a lot about a person by the way their dog looks at them; or you can tell a lot about a person by the way they treat their family… yet in this modern technology of the internet and social media, many will tell a lot of a person by their posts, their online profile and photo. We look at pictures, we google, we think a lot of folks by those they associate with and what moves them in music, in photos, in times spent with those they love and if they smile with their eyes and laugh in times of good times and bad.
We listen to what is not said as much as what is said. We grieve as a Nation when bad things happen to good things, and sadly we have become de-sensitized to horror, to crime, to things that used to make us cry… we see too much of it. But we still look to the youth at times to help us remember joy and laughter, yet we know hear of terrible things being done by youth and little children and to them.
We mourn for them and pray that good things will happen for them and they will exceed all our hopes as they grow. We give them messages to assist; from great people including Dr. Seuss: 

We hold onto hope, we hold strong to faith and on tight to the realities of life, liberty and the pursuit of happiness and I too equality for all. Yet I also know that our young people are into some wicked shit… synthetic drugs in mini-marts, access to liquor and prescription drugs, parties on campus’ that put them in harms way, and a litigious society where they are governed by good times that could end in a lawsuit and someone being hurt, maimed, raped, or dead from an overdose. Most are out for a good time on a Friday night, and in a heart beat something goes dicey, risk taking happens, and lives can be forever changed, just like that… a life with promise can be lost forever.  We must be present, be alert, we must talk to them, preach if we must, lay down hard if it takes that, yet not give up on the future of our leaders… we must put in time for the little ones, pursue the many options that may be theirs in 15-20 years and get them enthused about school and sports and mostly about passion in life.  As adults, we must discover our own child, and re-learn how to play, to discover the joys we embraced not so long ago as we jump in puddles and find our own way to fun exercising great choices and finding passion in laughter and light. We must encourage others and ourselves to remember;

Yes, good things can and do happen to good people, bad things happen to good people, BUT, if you want to live the dream, to strive to up your game… move into the next level and move away from negative people, run from those that will bring you to a level that makes you look less than you are.  Outshine the sun in all that you dare to dream and raise the bar on being all that you were born with to be all that you want.  YOU are the one to change the sails of your ship if you do not like the direction the ship is going, so cast off and experience the newness of the waters that are in front of you.
Let your word be as strong as your feet with each step that carries you to greatness as you reach out to one that is worthy of you and your love… as you reach out to those who have stood by you, that have embraced you and assured you of their undying love… Reach out in compassion, in truth and integrity as you walk the higher road of reality in your life and in honor.

 walk in beauty
DRSES

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Can I Make You Think?

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We have all felt it...that moment when it feels like the absolute core of us was shattered into tiny pieces of glass and we wonder how will we ever put ourselves back together again. Sometimes it is whole lives that are broken from tragedies, hurts, health, accidents and sometimes it is our dreams that are shattered. And it is there that the work and the choosing to pick up the pieces and start rebuilding again starts...piece by piece.

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Excellent blog... makes ya realize that we all have the innermost sanctuary to build and rebuild from within, to allow the flames of our souls to shine the light through the darkest of times and move into the brightest of healing ways... step by painful step, piece by piece into reslience

Each person, each view, each step

Hello everyone and just everything! As we move through each step of the day, our view changes, whether we are walking in great strides or taking baby steps … at our own pace in our own times there will be beauty to be found. IF we can find the courage to look up, look around, look down. In times of great stress, pain of loss, times of grief (new or those resurgences), in times of fear or worry… if we take the time to look, in our own way we will find signs, messengers that allow hope, even on the darkest of days.  And we will come to realize that everything is different, everything changes, and we are changing always and it does take time to get our feet on solid ground.

There may be times when we look at something that we saw just the day or hours before and see change; see shifts in thinking or see beauty where just a moment ago it seemed not to be there… life can be like that, our senses can be like that, it is our journey, our time, our steps, our eyes.  Yesterday, I sat outside and there were no blooms on a jasmine tree, no blooms on the hibiscus; yet this morning I walked outside and the fragrance filled my senses, the tree was alive in bloom… a tree that I had almost given up on had a magnificent bloom of hibiscus in full color almost the size of a salad plate… just waiting for me to notice.  This week the cardinal has made its appearance, not just to the trees… but dancing and hitting on the tree so close at hand, dancing on the screen of the lanai, making certain that I understood “I am here, the messenger has come, do you understand now?”
We must be open to the messengers in order to receive them in all their amazing grace and to learn to let go of that which holds us in order to receive the many gifts that allows us to move and to dance into and forward.  It may not be how it was, but it can be wonderful in newness of the promise that it is.
If you are alive to read this, it is a grand day; a day that you can live the legacy of those that have gone on to the next place while seeing all the many sights and hearing the sounds, smelling the fragrances of life in all its wonder here and now. 

There will be times that everyone finds themselves caught up in the steps of others, the demands of others, the wants of others, the pain of self and of others.  It is human nature it seems… yet fear and worry have yet to make for a different outcome to date on any issue or heartache as I know of.  We live in a world that is not as safe as we remember from our youth, as we have youth who seem to not respect the old school way of life that most of us remember; life seemed so much more simple “back when or back then”.  We see and hear news that we do not trust anymore, hear and witness rants of adults and their views as they try to convince us theirs is the only and best way to save God and Man from all that is, while forgetting history or using it to benefit their cause and effects of life as we have known it furthering causes and issues that have gotten out of hand.
In the process more fear is spread and man made (Congress style) issues continue and they make 6 figures while working less than 175 days a year, leaving regular folks wondering how they will live… life is complicated and grief is overextended as folks grieve in little ways the dream of how they thought it would be daily.
Then there is big grief, losses that mount up over time, cumulative grief, and folks forget how to breathe along the way, forget to stop and notice that the tide is still rolling in and rolling out and sunsets still astound and thrill the soul if we allow it to.
We have forgotten to let our inner child out to play and that allows us to feel ill more than well and then somehow the whole world feels badly on a physical, spiritual, emotional level.
We have forgotten or looked away rather than absorbing all the beauty that still surrounds us in each breath and each look through our most remarkable senses including our eyes, nose, ears, heart space.   

Oh I remember this rose, and the carrots and radishes, I admired it for the longest time… The creativity that we all were born with but are not using that part of the brain so much these days to play, to wonder, to heal… we can do better with that, we can heal ourselves, our pain of loss, our grief with each step, in our own time, with support and someone to walk along side us as a guide. Sometimes we just have to take a BIG BITE of it… remind ourselves that their is joy in the world, there is beauty in the world and go for it full tilt like there is no tomorrow… We can learn so much from the kids, the 4 leggeds in what we observe, in how we learn to activate our hearts, and the play that is within us… 
take a big bite into your day and ENJOY IT…
 

Just like D’Vante and Kamryn did when here and the cupcakes were ready!

Life can be like that, BITE INTO IT, go for it, remembering that YOU are the legacy … life is not a dress rehearsal! I wish you enough.

Walk in beauty,
DRSES 

 

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The Red Bird Danced

Good morning everyone and everything! I heard the familar sound before ever seeing my first visitor this morning… and then he landed first on the little ledge of the screen, then dancing in front of me to be certain of my attention… and finally landing so close as if to say, “well do you see me now?”  After getting out to take the picture, I was grateful and saw the female arrive and land nearby in the tree, the talk continued and then the dance continued. How blessed to watch, to see, to feel  as I enjoyed my coffee this morning… the Red Bird and spirit surrounded me.

We are so blessed to see the beauty that surrounds us, to hear their joyous song and to know that they are allowing us those moments and messages to share and to receive.

How is your world this day? Did you walk out to some chill in the air this morning as the sun is now coming up to get its shine on? Folks are still with the OneLove Jamfest memories going strong here, the sounds and the feeling still strong in hearts who attended. Those who put that event together still feeling the exhaustion that comes after; the absolute relief of success along with pure mental exhaustion of such an intense day of gathering and emotions from joy and painful loveliness combined to give everyone a day to remember… and a day to remember it was.  I plan to do a blog of just the sponsors of this event this year; those who donated and were so generous… those are the businesses that I plan to support and to spread the word about, for it is business like that we need to do business with both locally and long distance whenever possible!

Of course it is hard to order a pizza from Colorado that gives 20% to the Landon Korabek OneLove memorial I know… but it is good to know that they did! For it is in the spirit of giving that gives us all hope, no matter where you live or hang your hat… and businesses here came out with some great support I must tell you.

LOVE WINS and it heals, educates, creates awareness and allows the darkest days to turn to light and sun that shines for so many at some point along the journey. that is hope in the healing.

My hope for all today is that you find your way to the best of days; the way to promoting awareness in all good things, that you are able to find ways to hold on to the good things knowing that even in times of great challenges, great fear, great struggle… the good outweighs the bad.
 “Life is short, live it. Love is rare, grab it. Anger is bad, dump it. Fear is awful, face it. Memories are sweet, cherish it.” – Unknown
I wish you enough.
 Walk in Beauty,
DRSES
     

 

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